MRS GAMBIA; IT'S ALL LOVE

As a mother in her third Matrimonial household, you'd understand this more than most. So please bear with your THREE sets of children.

Your FIRST set are all grown and experienced in Life and The World. They get and reasonably understand 'these things'. They're more patient, diligent and forgiving.

Your SECOND set are an impatient but understandably frustrated and cautious bunch. They endured hindrance in the worst form brutal dictatorship. That experience from an abusive,, drunken father shaped their being. They're cautious.

Your THIRD Set are 'Chaats'. Young, Energetic, Aggressive but Inexperienced. They're happy and grateful that you have just remarried but they grace it with mixed feelings. They love to see you happy and moving on, but want step-daddy to understand tale tell signs of hurting you would have them all up in arms.

Mrs Gambia, please do be patient. After all, all three sets are acting from a position of LOVE & CARE.

Pata PJ

First Published 1/27/2017